SOYONS UNIS RESTONS FORT... LET'S STAY UNITED, LET'S STAY STRONG!
EVEN THOUGH WE GO THROUGH HARDSHIPS IN LIFE, NEVER GIVE UP!!!!!!!!
Moi
Infront of a government building in Lviv, Ukraine...

We came to have a good time and despite the hardship we met on the way... WE OVERCAME!!!!

From Ternopil, to Lviv... destination Katowice...
Leaving the ukraine was an adventure itself... We woke up around 11am on tuesday january 4th and had to rush to the train station in Ternopil Ukraine to buy train tickets to Katowice where we had to catch a plane home. We arrived the train station and ALL the tickets to katowice airport in Poland were sold out. What to do now? Not only were all the train tickets to Katowice sold out but all the train tickets to Lviv were sold out too. Lviv is about 2hours from Ternopil and we had to pass through Lviv in order to get home. Our hosts panicked so I tried to calm them down by reminding them that everything happens for a reason and that we could only learn from this experience. I also told them stories about our own negative experiences when organizing conferences. I have been organizing conferences for more than 4 years more close to six years now so this situation did not make me stressed at all because I was certain that all would work out. One time, at our Toronto conferences, our speakers, my sis and I were invited to hold our conference called "How much do you know about the DR Congo?" in ottawa and montreal too. One of our speakers was Mrs Justine Kassa-Vubu, the daughter of Congo's first president Joseph Kassa-Vubu. So we really wanted to make sure everything went smoothly. To save money (as I always like to do), we agreed to take the train. The train ride I think was about 4hours, I can't really remember. But what I do remember is that we missed our first train that had been paid for by the Congolese association of Canada. I felt so bad!!! This because I had promised the president to be on time, and the tickets were very expensive. I remember I just started to cry in front of everyone. Firstly, I was super tierd and every one was relying on me. I felt a huge responsibility on my shoulder. We had been organizing for weeks with sleepless nights so now everything was being expressed through my tears. I think everyone were shocked to see me cry. Especially the speakers, I tend to come across as a strong woman who does not cry so I could see it in their eyes that they were very shocked. I was able to calm down and we bought new tickets. I called the president of the congolese association to tell him the bad news. I remember feeling very nervous and disapointed in myself... But what could I do? I had to remain strong and move on. The president of the congolese association Albert Teuwen, was very nice on the phone and told me not to worry and that they would pay for the new tickets. I praised God and just new that he was taking care of us. And this was a learning experience for us all: be more prepared! So I told Yvon and Willy ( our hosts in Ukraine) this story. I just did not want them to feel that we were disapointed in them. Instead I wanted them to know that I could understand what they were going through as organizers of the conference. They managed to contact one of their friends in Lviv who helped us find a bus that would take us to katowice!The bus left Lviv at 5 pm sharp, praise God...Yes praise God, but little did we know what was awaiting us... Since we were not able to take a train to Lviv ( as all the trains were booked) we had to take a takci (this how taxi is spelled in ukrainian). Willy managed to find a little bus that could take 6 people as Yvon (the president of the student association of Ukraine), Willy and Patrick wanted to come along. They are so great and really took good care of us! This was to be yet another adventures experience in the Ukraine... I must say that Ukraine is one of the most racist countries I have ever been to.. Well at least their racism is very open unlike countries such as Norway were racism is very closed. By this I mean that there are many racist people in Norway but very rare will they tell you to your face that they hate black people or immigrants. In contrast, in the Ukraine and Poland people will not at all hide the facts that they are racist. They will tell you in your face that they don't like you because you are black. I really don't understand why black people are hated so much around the world all I know is that I really did not know what racism was until I entered Poland and Ukraine.
We drove about 2hours in the taxi. At some point the driver asked us to get out of the car in the middle of no where because he claimed he had driven too far. I could not believe my ears... My brother said that Yvon said " we are black, we can't just get off here in the middle of no where"... Our hosts started discussing with the driver in Ukrainian and finally were able to convince him to drive us to our destination; Lviv. This experience reminded me of a book I had read called "Left to tell" ( A MUST READ) by Immaculee IIibagiza about the genocide in Rwanda. There was a scene in the book where Immaculee and other tutsis were being rescued by the United Nations. They were all hidden in a van that was driving them to a refugee camp as they could be killed by hutus at any time. While they were driving they were stopped by hutus. The UN soldiers who were driving the car could have driven passed the hutus but instead decided to surrender by asking Immaculee and the other tutsis to get out of the van and confront the hutus. Than the UN forces just left!!!! Can you believe it??? The UN forcers left them to die? I could not believe what I had read!So when the taxi driver asked us to get out this story came to me. It was freezing cold and he wanted to leave us in the middle of no where in a country that kill black people because of the colour of their skin! In fact a young congolese guy was killed in the Ukraine. He had moved to the Ukraine to study with his sister. And one day as he went to buy water he was killed by young Ukrainian teenagers!We really need to speak out against racism!
When we arrived Lviv the driver asked for A LOT of money. This amount would probably be months of salaries for him. Many people in Ukraine think that black people are rich because they go there to study but do not work because in Ukraine people don't work. I really don't understand how their system works but there are barely jobs. So foreigners that come there really struggle because of this. The Congolese who are there studying pay everything themselves or through their parents so therefore, in the eyes of many ukrainians they are rich. Before I continue, I must say that I was sooooooooo PROUD to see so many educated congolese from doctors to engineers to pilots. It felt great! The future of Congo is in the Ukraine.
Now back to the taxi driver... He was asking for a lot of money and almost drove off with our luggage because we refused to give him the amount he asked for. I don't understand how people can be so dishonest! This man really does not have a heart. As they were arguing I realized that our passports where in my suitcase. I had planned to put our passports in my purse so that I could carry them at all times. By the way, I felt like a mom on this trip. I had to take care of our passports and tickets, I felt a lot of responsibility for bringing my siblings along to this racist country. As the taxi driver and our hosts were arguing and the driver kept trying to drive off with our suitcases my brother said " nancy why did you leave our passports in the back!" I felt a lot of anger when he said that as if that was something I wanted to hear in the middle of this chaotic situation. I got so mad so for the first time in years I yelled " shut up!" Than I walked to the driver and said " what do you think you are doing, open the door!" Than I said in french "Willy ouvre la porte"- which means Willy open the door... I started pulling the door but it was closed and I kept yelling in french "open the door"... I managed to get the door open and walked into the back of the van and grabbed our luggage but it was hard to get the luggage out from the back so I yelled "jerry help me!" But to be honest they all looked scared and shocked because here we were in a foreign country knowing that if the police was to come they would most likely trust the taxi driver. Than suddenly Willy said " nancy come out he is going to open the door". I walked out of the car furious and he opened the back so that we could get our luggage than I looked at him and said angry in english " you can't treat us like this! We are human being! Can you please treat us as human beings!" I did not care wheter or not he understood what I was saying, all I wanted was my message of JUSTICE to come across. He looked scared and it even seemed like he apologized than I turned around and looked at Patrick. He looked VERY surprised...than I walked away... I was so angry after that experience, I had to try to calm down... The next day when we finally arrived Norway Willy told me that they all ended up having to go to the police station to settle the amount. Apparantly they left the police station at 1am! We left at 5pm... Can you believe the world that we live in! I am happy to say that the police released them and charged the taxi driver, that was a nice victory!!!!
When we finally got on the bus I listenned to music and felt calm. Music has such healing power on me... But again, little did we know what was going to happen next...
stay tuned for Part 3.... once I get all of these negative experiences off my chest I can finally tell you all about the success of the Congo talk and New Years Party....
Following are some POSITIVE memories from the Ukraine: MISS THEM ALL!!!
Yvon, Willy, Patrick (REALLY COOL GUYS) and my sis Barbro... we went for a nice walk in Ukraine!

We passed by a museum...


My new two brothers!! Miss them:) I feel like I have known them for YEARS.... although it was the first time we met and we only spent 4 days together....

The view towards Lake Ternopil!!! SOOOOO NICE:)

A Church

Moi et Yvon.... in the cold! We also walked on lake Ternopil...

Moi et Willy...

Infront of an Oprah!

This guy told me that he was very inspired by my talk and that for him I was the symbol of Justice... and if any time he needs to vote for me dring elections in the Congo, he would not hesitate.... sooooo ENCOURAGING:)

In Ukraine they celebrate Xmas on the 7th of January so we passed by alot of Xmas decorations... and a Xmas tree...

